HUMAN in family and marriage
At some point, the person you fell in love with, changes in your eyes.
What actually happens in reality is another thing. The physical attraction disappears, and you are left with only an ordinary person like yourself. A human being as yourself. Just like yourself, with flaws and merits, not much different from yourself.
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The key is to see your partner as a part of you. Just as you like some things about yourself, you should find the things you love about your partner, just as you judge some of your own behaviours and find them annoying, you should see your partner's annoying behaviours as the same as if they were your own. With this attitude, you can begin to build the human between you. Observe both of you and ask together, “How can we make it work? How can we give each other fulfilment? What is it that we want to feed between us day by day, the hate, the love, the irony, the fun?” What we feed, will eventually grow.
We educate about the art of building a human being between the couple. In our talks, we will talk about the struggles, the psychological processes that go on inside us when we try to get closer to that one person, and some tricks that you can incorporate into your daily routine that will help you strengthen the love between.
They say it takes a village, but in our time the concept of the village has changed. With the emergence of the Internet and social media, the village has become the whole world from which there is no escape, and the laws of interconnectedness are more visible than ever. By teaching a child how he influences everyone and how everyone influences him, we teach him the laws of this interconnectedness and help him to use his qualities in the most beneficial way for himself and for others.
How to raise a human being in this world? A human being is someone who thinks with his own mind and not according to the rules given to him to follow blindly. We should let our children grow up with all the qualities we like and those we condemn and reject. By accepting a person in front of us and creating an environment and situations where a child learns to step “ouside” of himself and reflect on his actions, thoughts and feelings, we teach a child to be their own psychologist, we build a resilient person who knows how to relate to others, form fulfilling relationships, make good decisions, and become a full human being in this global village.